MIXED AGENDA
COUPLE/Discernment
Counselling
Mixed Agenda Couple Counseling known as Discernment Counseling are specialized forms of relationship counseling, Mixed Agenda Couple Counseling is designed for couples where one partner is committed to working on the relationship and wants to stay together, while the other partner is unsure or has doubts about continuing the relationship. The “mixed agenda” refers to the differing levels of commitment or goals regarding the relationship.
Mixed agenda/decrement counselling is not couples counselling it is short term focused 5-6 session that helps couples explore how to address their differing levels of commitment within the relationship, couples who are at a crossroads and need support to decide whether to continue working on their relationship or move forward with separation or divorce. During this process three options are explored with the couple: stay status quo, elect to pursue couples counselling and work on the relationship or separate/divorce. Sessions are held together and separately.
Discernment Counselling/Mixed Agenda couple is a specialized type of counseling designed for couples who may be contemplating divorce or separation but are unsure about whether to proceed. It helps couples explore their options and make a clear decision about the future of their relationship.
Key Features:
- Addressing Discrepancies: The counseling process focuses on addressing the differing levels of commitment and the challenges that arise from having mixed agendas.
- Clarifying Goals: Helping both partners articulate their individual goals and expectations for the relationship and understand each other's perspectives.
- Exploring Options: Evaluating potential pathways for the relationship, including reconciliation, separation, or other solutions that may fit both partners' needs.
- Facilitating Communication: Improving communication between partners to discuss their concerns, desires, and fears openly and constructively.
- Decision-Making Support: Providing support to help the couple make informed decisions about their relationship, whether that involves working towards resolution or considering separation.
- Focus on Decision-Making: The primary goal is to help couples gain clarity about whether to pursue reconciliation or proceed with divorce. It is less about resolving specific relationship issues and more about making an informed decision.
- Understanding Perspectives: Each partner's perspective on the relationship is explored, including their commitment level and their reasons for wanting to stay or leave.
- Exploring Possibilities: The counseling process may involve exploring whether there is a possibility for reconciliation and what steps would be necessary to work on the relationship if both partners are willing.
- Temporary Focus: Discernment counseling is typically short-term and focuses on helping the couple make a decision about their future rather than working through the details of the relationship.
- Clarifying Goals and Expectations: Assisting each partner in clarifying their personal goals and expectations, and understanding the implications of their decision for their own lives and the lives of others involved.
- Facilitating Communication: Enhancing communication between partners to ensure that both sides are fully heard and understood in the decision-making process.
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